Monday, January 25, 2010

pre-engagement engagements

So this last weekend was the big birthday party...my Grams turned 90! Everyone one was in town, so we decided to do family photos. My sister-in-law is a great photographer and was willing to take all of them for us.

She hasn't done very many in the snow and asked if Lincoln and I would be willing to let her take some pictures of us. I said yes (Lincoln hesitated a little, after all these aren't our engagements). Anyway we're not the most photogenic people, but I think these turned out pretty well. And I'll post more on the birthday celebration later.


Tuesday, January 12, 2010

The Proposal

Ok, here is the story everyone has been waiting for. A few disclaimers before I start..one, this is from my point of view. Two, I don't have all the pictures (they didn't up load for some reason). Three, this is probably the only time I will write this down, so it will probably be really long. And four, Lincoln is not here to correct anything that he sees wrong with my side of the story!

So the story begins Saturday. Lincoln had told me something went wrong in the biology lab and he would be working late. I got off work around seven and my cousin Hannah/roommate wanted to hang out. Lincoln said he would meet up with us later.

Hannah had told me that she needed to pick up a book at my sisters house, so she wanted to go there first. Right before we left Kim's house Cory (her husband) had told me I left some laundry there. I went to grab it and there was a note sitting on it. The note read: 'Go to the place where this was said: "Wait, you have Brave New World and Jane Eyre on your bookshelf?" And from there we will go back to the beginning.' So I went to my old room at Kim's house. He had said that to me the first time we ever hung out.

When I got to the room I found another envelope that read First Kiss. Now this is a part of the story that I have to take a small detour. When I saw these notes I wasn't sure I was supposed to find them. You see Lincoln had told me that I would know that the proposal was coming when everything started. I assumed that he was supposed to be with me. We usually go over to Kim's house on Sunday nights and I thought I wasn't supposed to find it till the next day.

I told Hannah that I didn't think I was supposed to find it. She just kept telling me how fun it would be and we should just do it anyway. I told her I didn't want to ruin it so I put everything back. Then I text Lincoln and asked him. He said to follow the clues and come get him. I was still thinking he was at work, so I asked if he wanted me to come pick him up. The poor guy, I was not understanding anything. Flustered he said no and I was supposed to follow the clues that lead to him.

So now that I was back on track and ready to go I opened the First Kiss envelope. It read: "Who's the girl in the black skirt?" Of course this is what he said to a friend the first time we met. The only problem is I was in a gray skirt! This clue led me up to Elkridge park where we used to play volleyball.


When I got there the note read First Meeting. The clue was: "Do you want to be friends?" "Sure." This is how I asked him for his number. So we went to the church where again we played a lot of volleyball. The note there read First Move. That's right I made the first move!


The next clue was a quote from his stake president. When we first met he had a calling that worked really close with the stake presidency. The quote was "Oh, it took me just 30 seconds to realize she's miles ahead of Lincoln." Lincoln had taken me to a stake high council party for.....Our First Date!


This next clue was where I went wrong. [walking with girl] "...[blah blah blah] [pause]...Whoa" I could not figure out this one, so the only place I could think of was 'A' Mountain. This is the lighted 'A' on the mountain that I had worked so hard to get back up there. We had hiked to the top one night and just talked for hours. It was the only place that I thought it could be. So we went there and I hike half way up the mountain when I finally stopped and text Lincoln. He told me I wasn't supposed to be there. So I sat down on the snow and slid all the way back down the mountain. Then he gave me a few more clues.


Tube Slide. I was still lost till Hannah said that sound's like maybe a park. Then it all came back to me. It wasn't Lincoln and I talking it was another couple. We had been playing at a park and both went down a tube slide and got stuck. The couple was walking by and didn't here or see us. When they got right in front of us the boy stopped and said "Whoa". I think we scared him. So off to the park we went.

The note said First....turning point to marriage. He didn't want to make us drive all the way to the real park that we talked about marriage for the fist time, so this was a stand in. The next clue read "Tracey...[kneeling]...Will you marry me?" I was supposed to stand there confused and looking for him. But he was so frustrated with me not wanting to go in the beginning and then not going to the right place he ran back and put the address on the card.

Sumac Park. I'd never been there but Hannah used her Iphone to help us get there. We pulled up and I got out to get the next note and Hannah sped off leaving me alone. The note said First Proposal (I hope it's the only one). It had me follow the sidewalk to a bridge to finish the journey.

When I got there he was waiting. He pointed out the view (we could see Old Main and the 'A' from there). Then he got down on one knee and said "Tracey, will you marry me?" And as an inside joke I said "Yeah, I guess." And then I said "YES!!" We stood up and he kissed me. When we looked up at the 'A' it had turned blue. Not planned but it was really cool.

So that is how it happened. Hannah was in on it the whole time. Laughing at me hiking half way up the mountain. Lincoln really didn't have to work and was one step ahead of us watching each move I made with binoculars. Hannah put Lincoln on speaker phone every time I read another clue so that he could here. I think I might have called him a nerd! Oops!

Even though there were a few rough patches it turned out great. And I said yes!


Monday, January 11, 2010

Finally

We're finally engaged! I'm so excited! Here's a pic of the ring. I designed it myself (so don't worry Lincoln's not cheep). I just didn't want a big diamond so I went with three small ones. The pic is kind of hard to see but the middle wavy band is gold and the straight ones are silver. I love it! I think it turned out so good. Lincoln did change it a little to add his touch (he made the diamonds bigger!). I'll post more about the proposal later...

Monday, December 07, 2009

Grams



For Christmas this year we are making a book of our favorite memories of my Grandma Oka (cousin Harmony's idea). Grams is turning 90 on January 22nd. This is one of my favorite memories of her!

I consider myself the luckiest of all the grandchildren. I get to share the one day a year that is all about me with my grandma. As far as I know I have only spent one birthday away from her in 24 (soon to be 25) years.

My earliest birthday memories are of Grams taking me to McDonalds for dinner. This is something that my grandpa would do and for a short time Grams carried on the tradition.

Grams and I have spent our birthday in a few different places. Once was in Las Vegas at the Hesley's house. Others were had over Sunday dinner and TV at Grams house. Most birthdays were spent with family. And of course all had cake.

The cake is my birthday present to Grams. For years now the tradition has been that I make the cake and Grams makes the dinner (usually my favorite, turkey, scalloped potatoes, and rice). Recently the dinner menu has changed, but nothing will ever compare to sharing my birthday with Grams.

I have been so lucky being able to share this with her and I look forward to each and every year!

Thursday, December 03, 2009

Weekly Family Dinner

We have recently started having a weekly family dinner at my sisters house. It's never the same day (usually whatever day works with everyone's schedule). Cousin Hannah (also my roommate) and cousin Hali come also. I have really grown fond of these dinners. It's fun to hang out and reminisce the good old days of Sunday dinners at grandmas.

It's also nice to have real homemade food. The only other time I eat food that is not microwavable, boilable, or fast food is when I eat at Lincoln's house and his grandma cooks. We have become quite the little chefs at these dinners. This week's was chicken manicotti. After Halloween we used the pumpkins to make real pumpkin pie! It was yummy (my mother would be proud)!

Funny story, a few weeks ago we were having dinner (keep in mind that Lincoln comes to these dinners). I said a blessing on the food and mentioned something about family AND friends. After the prayer Hannah said something to the effect of, Was that friend part necessary? We're pretty much all family at this point! YAY! That makes me happy!

Thursday, November 26, 2009

Happy Thanksgiving

So Thanksgiving is a great time to remember all the things you're thankful for. Well here is one that I'm thankful for....



Lincoln and I were wrestling (first mistake) he's bigger than me (second mistake, note: not stronger...just bigger). Well when push comes to shove I got shoved into a wooden chair, hence the black eye.

So I'm thankful I have a hard enough head to stop me!

Tuesday, November 03, 2009

3 jobs and an illness

So even thought I had two jobs (Texas Roadhouse & Bed, Bath & Beyond)I decided to go to an interview at Iggies. I just wanted to see if it would be a better option than Texas Roadhouse. Well I went and got a second interview and then I got the job.

After deliberating I decided to take the job and see how it worked out. If it didn't I wouldn't stay and if it did I would quit Texas Roadhouse. So I worked three jobs for a week and half. And at first thought I might keep all three, but then I got sick.

I thought it was the common cold. But it wasn't getting any better. So I went to the doctor who told me that I either had a bad sinus infection or mono again. He gave me an antibiotic for the sinus infection and said if it wasn't better to come back in a week. I'm still feeling about the same, but hoping it's only a sinus infection.

Well being sick made me realize that working three jobs is not so fun. I would probably make about the same amount at both jobs. My decision was made based how well they would work with my other schedule. So I chose to stay at Iggies and quit Texas Roadhouse.

I feel good about the decision. And I think it will work out really well for me. So now I have two jobs again. And I still work a lot but it's good I enjoy it.